FAQ's
🛡️ Safety & Trust
Q: Can you provide references from other families?
A: Yes! I have excellent references from families I’ve worked with and I’m happy to share them.
Q: Are you okay with no pictures or social media posts of the kids?
A: Of course. I will never take or share photos of your children or home without your permission.
Q: Are you accepting of same sex couples?
A: Absolutely, I welcome and celebrate all families.
Q: Are you comfortable with multilingual or culturally diverse households?
A: Yes! I love learning from and supporting families of all cultures and languages.
Q. Do you have any experience with special needs kids?
A. Yes! I grew up with a sister with an intellectual and developmental disability. I am also a member and peer buddy of Best Buddies.
Q. Do I have to pay you even when my child is asleep?
A. Yes. Payment covers the full time I’m providing care, whether your child is awake or asleep.
🚗 Logistics & Availability
Q: Do you have a car?
A: Not yet, I’m learning soon! In the meantime, I can take your child out and come to you using Metro bus, Metro, Lyft, Shore Transit, or walking. Even without driving, I arrive on time, communicate clearly, and create joyful, inclusive spaces for children.
Q: Can you stay late if needed?
A: Yes, I’m happy to stay late when needed.
Q: What if I’m running late getting home?
A: No problem. just send me a message. I’ll keep your child safe and comfortable until you return.
Q: Can you walk with or take public transportation with the child if needed?
A: Yes, I’m comfortable walking or using public transit with children.
Q: Can you do outings with my children?
A: Absolutely.
🏡 Home & Housekeeping
Q: Are you okay with light housekeeping while the kids are asleep?
A: Yes, I can help with light housekeeping during downtime.
Q: Can you vacuum after playtime or meals?
A: Yes, I believe in leaving things tidy. I’ll vacuum upon request.
Q: Can we count on you to keep things tidy?
A: Definitely. Any messes we make will be cleaned up before you return home.
Q: Do you mind if the house is messy before you babysit?
A: Not at all. I understand that life with kids is busy and messy. No judgment here.
Q: Are you comfortable with pets?
A: Yes, I’m comfortable with both dogs and cats.
🍎 Meals & Routines
Q: Can you prepare meals or snacks?
A: Yes, I’m happy to prepare meals and snacks that meet your child’s needs.
Q: How do you handle transitions?
A: I use countdowns, reminders, and choices to make transitions smooth and empowering.
Q: How do you handle screen time?
A: I follow your family’s screen time rules and enforce them consistently.
📚 Learning & Activities
Q: Will you help with homework or reading?
A: Yes, I can help with both homework and reading.
Q: What kinds of activities do you like to do with kids?
A: Arts, crafts, games, and any safe activities that interest your child or children.
💖 Emotional Care & Discipline
Q: How do you handle tantrums or difficult behavior?
A: I respond calmly and firmly, never out of anger. I name the behavior, offer support, and help children regulate with compassion.
Q: How do you comfort a child who is upset or scared?
A: I meet them with warmth and reassurance, whether through a hug, gentle words, or helping them talk it out when they’re ready.
Q: How do you handle sibling arguments or conflicts?
A: I listen to both sides, rephrase what they said, and guide them toward compromise.
Q: What kind of discipline do you use?
A: I use child‑centered, connection‑focused discipline that emphasizes guidance over control.
Q: What if my child has a hard time separating from me?
A: I meet them with patience and creativity. for example, making a “welcome back” card to ease the transition.
📱 Communication
Q: How will you stay in touch during the babysitting time?
A: I’ll communicate in whatever way you prefer. I only send check‑ins if you request them, so you’ll never feel bombarded.